The last day of third grade!

This is so exciting!  This is Amy’s last day of third grade!  Next year, she will be going to the 4-6th grade school, in our town.  She has had, for her, dramatic changes over the year, and I want to share them with you. 

This is a sample of her writing, back on 10/24/07:

My bff is saru we den

herns sis pesschool.  I am so

happy we ern in the same

school!  we are in a berown

chroop to getner!  A berown

chroop is abuet of kid

wening how to help erthdo

we evet have the same

favoret anmo it is a hors!  that s my

bff oy bff mens bes fem for f fever forf.

Translation:  My bff is Sara.  We’ve been friends since preschool.  I am so happy we are in the same school!  We are in the same Brownie Troop together!  A Brownie troop is a bunch of kids who are learning how to help others.  We even have the same favorite animal.  It is a horse!  That is my bff.  Oh yeah, bff means best friend forever. 

 

And, one near the end of the year:  5/19/08

My ckupcak

Happy birth day to you

choo choo choo chikino

Happy birth day too

choo choo choo chitkin

happy dirth bay ber Amy

happy derth day to you

choo choo choo chikin

hiy ya as yhay sis I say

ber ingon the cup caks.

Smash smash as we eat

are cupcacks. 

Translation; (if I can translate it!):

My Cupcake

Happy Birthday to you, choo choo choo chickino. 

Happy Birthday to you, choo choo choo chikcino.

Happy Birthday dear Amy.

Happy Birthday to you, choo choo choo, chickino.  Hey yeah, as they sing, I say, bring on the cupcakes.  Smash, smash as we eat our cupcakes! 

————————————————————————————-

What you cannot see, is the difference, in her handwriting, too.  at the beginning of the year, it is all over the place, some letters are big, some are small, none are on line.  Now, she is about the same size for all the letters, and more on line.  She is starting to spell better, but, there are obvious phonemical spellings there.  And, after a while, she seems to tire, and letters are reversed, and even the same word that she wrote correctly at first, becomes more and more phonemic. 

But, I see improvements, not huge ones, and I don’t expect her to be a perfect speller.  But, I am hoping for even more improvement over the next 12 months.  She started with special ed, only in February.  So, I am hoping that the more one on one next school year, and the extended school year this summer, will have a great impact.

Published in: on 06/17/2008 at 1:01 pm Leave a Comment

Celebrating the little things…

Amy isn’t coming home with perfect grades, in fact you could say she is failing in spelling.  But, that doesn’t bother me, I know she won’t be a great speller, and we do have computers and word check these days.  But, the fact that she can sit down and read a book to her younger brother and sister?  That is priceless.

I just wish I could get her to pick up a book, spontaneously, and without my bringing it up.  I don’t want to be a nagging mom…

Only 5 more days of school.  Extended school year, starts June 30th…(tutoring 3x a week, one on one at the school). 

Published in: on 06/10/2008 at 8:58 pm Comments (2)

How our government is failing our children

Despite all this great talk, of “No Children Left Behind”, our government, is still allowing children to fall through the cracks.  In IDEA, the bible of all child study teams, a child isn’t deemed eligible for evaluation, unless they are a year or more behind the learning expectations in their curriculum.  (unless of course, they have a diagnosis, already that will affect their learning).  So, children, who struggle, with learning their letters, the sounds that they make, the phonemic awareness of words, how to read, and all the fun stuff that goes with reading, can only be evaluated if they are a year or more behind their peers. 

I am not saying that all children who struggle with reading, should be evaluated.  But, I am saying, that since so much is now known about dyslexia, that if a child is presenting with the signs and symptoms of dyslexia, then, maybe, as soon as those concerns arise, maybe testing wouldn’t hurt. 

Once a parent first sends their child to school, and entrusts the system, with the proper education of a child, they truly believe that the school is doing everything in their power to properly educate that child.  That includes providing all the necessary screening, and testing needed to ensure that your child is progressing in a manner of which is expected.  But, in the case of our government, it is considered normal for a child to lag up to a  year behind their peers, in learning expectations, before they consider a learning disability.  I am disgusted that a school can sit there, and tell a parent, that yes, your child is behind, but, they are not behind enough to be tested for a learning disability.  Sorry, we don’t trust your parental instincts.  Your child is just lazy.  I don’t just blame the child study team, but, some teachers out there, are just not that sharp, or experienced enough to say to themselves, “wow, this child is really struggling with the basic components of reading, maybe there could be a learning disability.”  Instead, once your child cannot read at the end of first grade, they tell you to hold your child back.

The worst thing that you can do, for a child with learning disabilities is to hold them back a year!  Why?  Because, that learning disability will not go away, nor will they do any better repeating a grade.  And, think of the emotional aspect of holding a child back.  First of all, they are probably already feeling defeated, and now, you want to hold them back, and they sink even lower in their self esteem.  How is that going to create a positive learning experience.

So, instead of saying, to a parent, hold your child back, maybe teachers should look at the whole picture.  Bring in the reading specialist at your school, have them take a look at the child and their skills (hopefully the reading specialist is already seeing your child).  They should write down the specifics, and at that meeting to determine if they are going to evaluate your child, talk about the specific areas of deficit, and how that is affecting other areas of learning.  Are those areas of deficit more than a year behind learning expectations at this level.  Ask that of your child’s teacher.  

Children with dyslexia are very bright.  They can compensate up to a point, for their disability.  But, the small components of reading are lacking.  It is those components, that need to be evaluated.  Not the entire picture. 

But, why does it have to be an entire year behind?  The earlier a child is diagnosed with a learning disability, the sooner the proper teaching methods can be Incorporated into the child’s curriculum.  Why can’t the government recognize symptoms (just like a doctor does to diagnose an illness), of a learning disability, no matter how mild or severe they are?  Rather, than saying, a child must be a year behind their peers, before they test.  To me, it is like saying, OK, your cancer tumor is only grade 1, but, we don’t do surgery or chemo until it is grade 3;  as to your child is in grade one, and only able to understand reading at a mid kindergarten level, and cannot distinguish letter sounds yet, so we cannot test until they are in second grade and reading at a beginning first grade level.  What is the difference?  Obviously, a child, who has been exposed, not only in kindergarten, but, early on, as early as 2 years old in preschool/daycare, to the letters and their sounds, and 5 years later, still cannot name all the letters when seen in print, surely must have a problem. 

So, what is a parent to do?  Sit there patiently waiting at the mercy of the school?  Pay out of pocket for an independent evaluation, because the school is ignoring the obvious?  OR, take action? 

I am going to reread the IDEA act.  I am going to see, why, in 2004 when it was suggested in Congress to change the standards of testing children, why, action wasn’t taken.  I am going to make some noise and contact my state senators and congressmen/women.  I want to ensure that in a few years, another mother, like myself, doesn’t have to fight, and cry because brick walls are popping up everywhere, for their child. 

So, as my journey begins, my research and all, I will push hard to get children noticed earlier, when they are not so behind their peers, to enable them to gain confidence and learn the proper techniques to help them to read. 

You can read IDEA here  http://www.nichcy.org/idea.htm

Published in: on 06/05/2008 at 1:36 pm Comments (3)

What can you do to help your struggling reader?

 

I didn’t know anybody that had a child, who struggled with the basics of reading, like my Amy.  She couldn’t even understand that letters made sounds, nor could she read all the letters until mid first grade.  So, other parents didn’t understand the severity of the struggles that we faced.  But, now, that I am fully ensconced in this journey, I can use my experiences, and tell you what worked for us.  It may not work for you, or, you may have a new suggestion, that we haven’t considered.  If so, please share!  Or, it may be something that you may want to try.  So, here goes!

1.  Find a tutor, who is familiar with the reading program in your school district.  A huge benefit, would be a tutor who can utilize various teaching methods (visual, auditory, kinesthetic-aka Orton Gillingham, or Linda Mood-Bell methods).  Someone who is creative, and PATIENT!  Contact your school principal for a list of teachers who are available to tutor.  Those huge chain places, may not really have the tutors trained in the proper methods your struggling reader my really benefit from.  They may not be well versed in your school’s reading cirriculum.  A Tutor from your school, will have contact at least weekly with your child’s teacher.  They can talk and problem solve together.  The tutor can find out directly what is the area of most need.  And, a private tutor, we found, was less expensive than one from those big chains.   Also, we were able to learn directly from the tutor, how to help Amy.  I felt free to email her, with concerns and questions, and she could give me answers.

2.  Take classes from your local college or community college.  I was lucky to see that over the summer, our local community college was offering some classes geared to both parents and teachers, that would be of great assistance to us at home.  One, discusses what  the Orton Gillingham method is, and another discusses Dyslexia, and signs and solutions for working with a child with this diagnosis.  How wonderful is that?  The first one, is a total of 8 hours (2 Saturday mornings) the second, is 3 hours on one Wed night.  So, it may not require a huge chunk of time, and may not tie up your whole summer.  Both courses, cost me about $100.  Not a bad deal.  And, I may be able to use the credit hours towards my professional licensure CEU requirments.

3.  Keep an open and non threatening line of communication with your child’s teacher.  That way, you can both be honest, with the good and bad that is happening in your child’s progress/lack of progress.  Many schools have email directly to your child’s teacher.  Utilize it!  You can tuck the kids in to bed, and without disturbances, write a thoughtful note to the teacher, bringing up concerns, or thanking them for making an extra effort.

4.  Keep learning a positive experience, for your child and for yourself!  You know those commercials on tv, where the parent is yelling at their child “why can’t you do better?”  That is the last thing your child wants to hear.  Take baby steps.  If they finally can read the word “and”  in a sentence without struggling, praise them!  If they continue to struggle with the same word over and over, change the way you are attacking it.  Get out a dry erase board, write that word over and over, trace it in sand, dirt, in bubbles.  Break the word down, into it’s sound components.  Make it fun! 

5.  Look for an outside of school system source for evaluation.  If your school isn’t willing to evaluate your child for a learning disability, find someone who will.  I spent over 3 years of Amy’s education, without the proper diagnosis.  We could have had her tested as early as kindergarten, and fully tested in first grade, for dyslexia.  Instead of fighting with the child study team for ove 3 years, I could have been working with them, to help Amy and to provide the in classroom support that she needed back then, and is getting now.  Link through the International Dyslexia Association http://www.interdys.org/, to look for someone in your area, who specializes with working with children with reading struggles.  They can be a wonderful resource, not just for testing, but, for recommendations to help your child succeed in the classroom. 

These are a few things that have really helped Amy, and us, and I hope that you can benefit from some of our experiences.  Do you have something that helps you and your struggling reader?  Do you want to share?  Please, let me know! 

Published in: on 06/03/2008 at 1:14 pm Leave a Comment

Two new (ok, the only) buttons!

As many may be well aware of, the 2008 presidential elections are upon us.  The Obama vs Clinton battle is continuing (well, in the mind of Hillary Clinton, anyway), and the Republication candiate is all but chosen by convention (McCain).  I am not one to debate and will not go into politics here, but, I am one to vote!  So, please make sure that you really know your candidates before you vote and vote with a clear conscience!  Click on that button to find out more about the candidates!

The other one, is for this fantastic site, kirtsy.  It is like an online magazine for the modern woman, linking you to information all over the web!  They have information on a little bit of every aspect of life, on there.  So, go check it out!  They have just changed their name from sk*rt to kirtsy and are trying to get the word out. 

Check out my links, to the International Dyslexia Association, and to the website, Dyslexia Tutor:  news and resources, as I have found these two sites that have been very informatitive.  More links to come! 

 

Published in: on 05/29/2008 at 7:28 pm Comments (2)

Some Wonderful Achievments!

Amy has shown considerable growth over the past school year.  For example, at the beginning of the school year, Amy’s writing example could have been in the kindergarten class.  There were hardly any spaces between words, she had relied only on writing the words down in a phonemic fashion, so it was difficult to quickly read what she wrote.  You could tell that she became worn out, in her efforts, as she had about 8 sentences, while others in her class had twice the amount she wrote.  Her handwriting was inconsistent and not online. 

Now, there are many improvements.  The handwriting is more legible, and online.  The words are properly spaced.  She is spelling the basic or core words from first and second grade much more consistently, in a correct manner.  Her work could pass for that of an early second grader.  Now, she can orally tell you a story, that is full of detail and very complex.  But, she cannot write it down, in the same manner. 

I hope that the summer tutoring, will continue to help her close the gap in her learning expectations, and bring her closer to grade level. 

She is a creative kid, and has wonderful ideas, and I hope that one day, she can really express her ideas in a written fashion, so that we can preserve them for her. 

Published in: on 05/28/2008 at 6:17 pm Leave a Comment

IEP went well!

The IEP meeting last week, went very well. Since Amy is making progress, the goals remain the same, and are expanded to help her throughout the day next year.  She will continue with 88 minutes of 1:1 with a special education teacher daily, during literacy arts language class.  That is twice what she is getting right now.  Also, she will be going to “summer school” for one on one tutoring 3 days a week for 45 minutes.  I know that she isn’t happy about that, but, it will help her to continue to make progress over the summer.  If at any point she doesn’t make progress, we can look into utilizing technology to help her in the classroom.  We are considering the Kurzweil 3000, a Franklin Speller or other tools.  The children in fourth grade do alot of their writing  on a computer, so, she can use spell check in Word.  I am comfortable with all of this, for now. 

 

Published in: on 05/27/2008 at 9:44 pm Leave a Comment
Tags:

Preparing for the Annual IEP

The countdown is 7 days, until we sit down, and go over Amy’s annual IEP.  I am predicting a not so good time.  Why?  On Monday, the child study team, finally received their copy of the learning psych eval, that I took Amy for, back in March.  The one that has the diagnosis of dyslexia, and the recommendations.  These recommendations include daily one on one work, with an Orton Gillingham or other similar learning technique trained teacher for 1 1/2 hours.  And, an expensive computer program, the Kurzweil 3000, that you can download or scan books/tests/ any text into, and it will read along while highlighting the text, in your choice of speed and voice.  This will enable Amy to be an independant reader in school and beyond (in college and work and life). 

I already have my notes, and will be looking at the current IEP and making appropriate changes as needed.  I would like more accomodations made, in all her classes and specials.  For example, having a written list of instructions for her, rather than her trying to copy them from the board.  She has a really hard time with that.  Also, having her take notes, but, also, for her to receive a copy of the notes from her teacher, too, as note taking will not make sense when read back by herself, or us, or her teacher. 

Next year, she will be in 4th grade, so, it is not going to be all too different.  But, I am sure that things are going to be more involved, such as more note writing, and copying more from the board. 

I wish that I didn’t even have to think about these things, that she could just go to school, and come home, and do her homework, and get wonderful grades and read on grade level.  But, I know that isn’t going to happen, well, right away, it won’t.  Maybe by the time she is in high school, things might be a bit easier for her in school.  For now, we are living in the needs she has today, and for the next year.  Wish us luck! 

Published in: on 05/14/2008 at 11:48 pm Leave a Comment
Tags:

Where we are right now…

Right now, we are just waiting to meet with the CST about the new diagnosis of dyslexia.  And, the recommendations that are going with that.  I am comfortable knowing that the Special Ed teacher who is working with Amy, is really working hard, with her, to overcome her reading struggles. 

More about her special ed teacher- I have gotten to know her well, outside of school.  Her daughter is in dance class with Amy.  So, we have a personal relationship. 
And, from that, I know that this teacher is trained in Linda Mood-Bell techniques.  She has really helped Amy gain confidence in her reading and writing skills.  I know that I can say, hey, Amy is really struggling with, let’s say, Math multiplication facts.  How can we help her to remember these things?  I have weekly, face to face contact with her- how awesome is that?  That is something that not everyone can say. 

I can say, that when Amy reads those ads that are on billboards, or the store signs, and can finally read them I am so happy!  She really has progressed this year!  Reading seems to be clicking for her, finally.  I want to ensure that she doesn’t regress over the summer, and will be anxious to see how the Child Study Team also deals with this concern. 

The learning psychologist who diagnosed her, recommends that she attend three tutoring sessions weekly for 8 weeks this summer.  At $60 a lession, that is $180 a week!  I would have to go back to work full time, and then I wouldn’t have a way of getting her there.  But, it is with an Orton Gillingham trained teacher, and would provide her the multisensory approach that benefits her learning style. 

I also see concerns with her math skills, too.  She is very good with the facts, but, with the amount of math stories that are involved in the math program, she struggles with understanding them on her own.  So, I would love to see her continue with math over the summer, also. 

I know that Amy is a kid, and we do plan on some fun this summer!  But, she is a kid who cannot go 3 months school free.  And, yes, I do feel badly that I am going to make her have some sort of education over the summer, but, she does understand that it is for her own good. 

Published in: on 05/02/2008 at 5:50 pm Leave a Comment

Book Suggestion!

I wanted to do a full fledged book review.  But, once I started, I realized that my kids, who are running around, aren’t allowing me to have the full attention needed for that.  So, instead, I am going to make a book suggestion.

“The Everything Parent’s Guide to Children with Dyslexia- All you need to ensure your child’s success” by Abigail Marshall, is a thorough book, on all aspects of Dyslexia for the parent. 

It meets several of my requirements.  First of all, it is an easy book to read.  It is well organized, and subdivided.  Each chapter focuses on one main topic, and brings up in sub chapters, individual aspects of the main topic.  Within these sub chapters, are little boxes of facts/questions/alerts etc, that are in a shadowed area. 

Secondly, it starts with explaining what dyslexia is, how a child or an adult with it, learn and process information, and how different learning processes can actually change the way the brain works, with good training.  She goes on, how you can get a diagnosis.  And, once you have that diagnosis, what techniques or strategies you can try. 

She continues to explain how everyone learns to read.  And, how the child with dyslexia differs from that model. 

What is important to us, at this point, is how you can interact with the school (teacher, child study team, etc)  to ensure that everyone is doing what they can, to help your child.  She discusses the 504 B plan the the IEP process. 

Marshall also discusses the various different teaching approaches that can be utilized, and also includes some other suggestions, such as diet or supplements that can be tried to help your child. 

Did you know that there are schools out there, that enroll only children with Dyslexia?  She discusses several of them, unfortunately, none are in my local area!  There are also colleges that are geared to students who have a diagnosed learning disability.  (This information will come in handy for us, in about 7 or 8 years). 

Marshall, has also discussed various other issues that you may find, when your child has dyslexia, and how these can also be treated.  She even takes you from the early school years, to the teen years to high school and beyond.

At the end of the book are very useful appendixes.  Some include useful internet resources, famous people with dyslexia, and recommended reading. 

What really interested me the most, and probably made me sigh a huge sigh of relief, was the chapter about colleges geared to students with learning disabilities.  Also, that there are scholarships available for such students, and that the support is there for them.  I was able to finally envision that day, that every parent hopes for and dreads, that day that you take your child/your child first attends college.  Up until this point, I had almost given up hope of my Amy being able to be a successful college student, one who doesn’t struggle and become discouraged when the workload overwhelms her.  Now, I can feel with certainty that our daughter can succeed even while in college. 

Abigail Marshall has really provided the manual that gives parents the information that they need and the hope that they so desparately are searching for.  It allows the parent to become a positive influence on their child’s learning abilities, and allowing their child to succeed in learning.