The last day of third grade!

This is so exciting!  This is Amy’s last day of third grade!  Next year, she will be going to the 4-6th grade school, in our town.  She has had, for her, dramatic changes over the year, and I want to share them with you. 

This is a sample of her writing, back on 10/24/07:

My bff is saru we den

herns sis pesschool.  I am so

happy we ern in the same

school!  we are in a berown

chroop to getner!  A berown

chroop is abuet of kid

wening how to help erthdo

we evet have the same

favoret anmo it is a hors!  that s my

bff oy bff mens bes fem for f fever forf.

Translation:  My bff is Sara.  We’ve been friends since preschool.  I am so happy we are in the same school!  We are in the same Brownie Troop together!  A Brownie troop is a bunch of kids who are learning how to help others.  We even have the same favorite animal.  It is a horse!  That is my bff.  Oh yeah, bff means best friend forever. 

 

And, one near the end of the year:  5/19/08

My ckupcak

Happy birth day to you

choo choo choo chikino

Happy birth day too

choo choo choo chitkin

happy dirth bay ber Amy

happy derth day to you

choo choo choo chikin

hiy ya as yhay sis I say

ber ingon the cup caks.

Smash smash as we eat

are cupcacks. 

Translation; (if I can translate it!):

My Cupcake

Happy Birthday to you, choo choo choo chickino. 

Happy Birthday to you, choo choo choo chikcino.

Happy Birthday dear Amy.

Happy Birthday to you, choo choo choo, chickino.  Hey yeah, as they sing, I say, bring on the cupcakes.  Smash, smash as we eat our cupcakes! 

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What you cannot see, is the difference, in her handwriting, too.  at the beginning of the year, it is all over the place, some letters are big, some are small, none are on line.  Now, she is about the same size for all the letters, and more on line.  She is starting to spell better, but, there are obvious phonemical spellings there.  And, after a while, she seems to tire, and letters are reversed, and even the same word that she wrote correctly at first, becomes more and more phonemic. 

But, I see improvements, not huge ones, and I don’t expect her to be a perfect speller.  But, I am hoping for even more improvement over the next 12 months.  She started with special ed, only in February.  So, I am hoping that the more one on one next school year, and the extended school year this summer, will have a great impact.

Published in:  on 06/17/2008 at 1:01 pm Leave a Comment

Celebrating the little things…

Amy isn’t coming home with perfect grades, in fact you could say she is failing in spelling.  But, that doesn’t bother me, I know she won’t be a great speller, and we do have computers and word check these days.  But, the fact that she can sit down and read a book to her younger brother and sister?  That is priceless.

I just wish I could get her to pick up a book, spontaneously, and without my bringing it up.  I don’t want to be a nagging mom…

Only 5 more days of school.  Extended school year, starts June 30th…(tutoring 3x a week, one on one at the school). 

Published in:  on 06/10/2008 at 8:58 pm Comments (2)

How our government is failing our children

Despite all this great talk, of “No Children Left Behind”, our government, is still allowing children to fall through the cracks.  In IDEA, the bible of all child study teams, a child isn’t deemed eligible for evaluation, unless they are a year or more behind the learning expectations in their curriculum.  (unless of course, they have a diagnosis, already that will affect their learning).  So, children, who struggle, with learning their letters, the sounds that they make, the phonemic awareness of words, how to read, and all the fun stuff that goes with reading, can only be evaluated if they are a year or more behind their peers. 

I am not saying that all children who struggle with reading, should be evaluated.  But, I am saying, that since so much is now known about dyslexia, that if a child is presenting with the signs and symptoms of dyslexia, then, maybe, as soon as those concerns arise, maybe testing wouldn’t hurt. 

Once a parent first sends their child to school, and entrusts the system, with the proper education of a child, they truly believe that the school is doing everything in their power to properly educate that child.  That includes providing all the necessary screening, and testing needed to ensure that your child is progressing in a manner of which is expected.  But, in the case of our government, it is considered normal for a child to lag up to a  year behind their peers, in learning expectations, before they consider a learning disability.  I am disgusted that a school can sit there, and tell a parent, that yes, your child is behind, but, they are not behind enough to be tested for a learning disability.  Sorry, we don’t trust your parental instincts.  Your child is just lazy.  I don’t just blame the child study team, but, some teachers out there, are just not that sharp, or experienced enough to say to themselves, “wow, this child is really struggling with the basic components of reading, maybe there could be a learning disability.”  Instead, once your child cannot read at the end of first grade, they tell you to hold your child back.

The worst thing that you can do, for a child with learning disabilities is to hold them back a year!  Why?  Because, that learning disability will not go away, nor will they do any better repeating a grade.  And, think of the emotional aspect of holding a child back.  First of all, they are probably already feeling defeated, and now, you want to hold them back, and they sink even lower in their self esteem.  How is that going to create a positive learning experience.

So, instead of saying, to a parent, hold your child back, maybe teachers should look at the whole picture.  Bring in the reading specialist at your school, have them take a look at the child and their skills (hopefully the reading specialist is already seeing your child).  They should write down the specifics, and at that meeting to determine if they are going to evaluate your child, talk about the specific areas of deficit, and how that is affecting other areas of learning.  Are those areas of deficit more than a year behind learning expectations at this level.  Ask that of your child’s teacher.  

Children with dyslexia are very bright.  They can compensate up to a point, for their disability.  But, the small components of reading are lacking.  It is those components, that need to be evaluated.  Not the entire picture. 

But, why does it have to be an entire year behind?  The earlier a child is diagnosed with a learning disability, the sooner the proper teaching methods can be Incorporated into the child’s curriculum.  Why can’t the government recognize symptoms (just like a doctor does to diagnose an illness), of a learning disability, no matter how mild or severe they are?  Rather, than saying, a child must be a year behind their peers, before they test.  To me, it is like saying, OK, your cancer tumor is only grade 1, but, we don’t do surgery or chemo until it is grade 3;  as to your child is in grade one, and only able to understand reading at a mid kindergarten level, and cannot distinguish letter sounds yet, so we cannot test until they are in second grade and reading at a beginning first grade level.  What is the difference?  Obviously, a child, who has been exposed, not only in kindergarten, but, early on, as early as 2 years old in preschool/daycare, to the letters and their sounds, and 5 years later, still cannot name all the letters when seen in print, surely must have a problem. 

So, what is a parent to do?  Sit there patiently waiting at the mercy of the school?  Pay out of pocket for an independent evaluation, because the school is ignoring the obvious?  OR, take action? 

I am going to reread the IDEA act.  I am going to see, why, in 2004 when it was suggested in Congress to change the standards of testing children, why, action wasn’t taken.  I am going to make some noise and contact my state senators and congressmen/women.  I want to ensure that in a few years, another mother, like myself, doesn’t have to fight, and cry because brick walls are popping up everywhere, for their child. 

So, as my journey begins, my research and all, I will push hard to get children noticed earlier, when they are not so behind their peers, to enable them to gain confidence and learn the proper techniques to help them to read. 

You can read IDEA here  http://www.nichcy.org/idea.htm

Published in:  on 06/05/2008 at 1:36 pm Comments (3)

What can you do to help your struggling reader?

 

I didn’t know anybody that had a child, who struggled with the basics of reading, like my Amy.  She couldn’t even understand that letters made sounds, nor could she read all the letters until mid first grade.  So, other parents didn’t understand the severity of the struggles that we faced.  But, now, that I am fully ensconced in this journey, I can use my experiences, and tell you what worked for us.  It may not work for you, or, you may have a new suggestion, that we haven’t considered.  If so, please share!  Or, it may be something that you may want to try.  So, here goes!

1.  Find a tutor, who is familiar with the reading program in your school district.  A huge benefit, would be a tutor who can utilize various teaching methods (visual, auditory, kinesthetic-aka Orton Gillingham, or Linda Mood-Bell methods).  Someone who is creative, and PATIENT!  Contact your school principal for a list of teachers who are available to tutor.  Those huge chain places, may not really have the tutors trained in the proper methods your struggling reader my really benefit from.  They may not be well versed in your school’s reading cirriculum.  A Tutor from your school, will have contact at least weekly with your child’s teacher.  They can talk and problem solve together.  The tutor can find out directly what is the area of most need.  And, a private tutor, we found, was less expensive than one from those big chains.   Also, we were able to learn directly from the tutor, how to help Amy.  I felt free to email her, with concerns and questions, and she could give me answers.

2.  Take classes from your local college or community college.  I was lucky to see that over the summer, our local community college was offering some classes geared to both parents and teachers, that would be of great assistance to us at home.  One, discusses what  the Orton Gillingham method is, and another discusses Dyslexia, and signs and solutions for working with a child with this diagnosis.  How wonderful is that?  The first one, is a total of 8 hours (2 Saturday mornings) the second, is 3 hours on one Wed night.  So, it may not require a huge chunk of time, and may not tie up your whole summer.  Both courses, cost me about $100.  Not a bad deal.  And, I may be able to use the credit hours towards my professional licensure CEU requirments.

3.  Keep an open and non threatening line of communication with your child’s teacher.  That way, you can both be honest, with the good and bad that is happening in your child’s progress/lack of progress.  Many schools have email directly to your child’s teacher.  Utilize it!  You can tuck the kids in to bed, and without disturbances, write a thoughtful note to the teacher, bringing up concerns, or thanking them for making an extra effort.

4.  Keep learning a positive experience, for your child and for yourself!  You know those commercials on tv, where the parent is yelling at their child “why can’t you do better?”  That is the last thing your child wants to hear.  Take baby steps.  If they finally can read the word “and”  in a sentence without struggling, praise them!  If they continue to struggle with the same word over and over, change the way you are attacking it.  Get out a dry erase board, write that word over and over, trace it in sand, dirt, in bubbles.  Break the word down, into it’s sound components.  Make it fun! 

5.  Look for an outside of school system source for evaluation.  If your school isn’t willing to evaluate your child for a learning disability, find someone who will.  I spent over 3 years of Amy’s education, without the proper diagnosis.  We could have had her tested as early as kindergarten, and fully tested in first grade, for dyslexia.  Instead of fighting with the child study team for ove 3 years, I could have been working with them, to help Amy and to provide the in classroom support that she needed back then, and is getting now.  Link through the International Dyslexia Association http://www.interdys.org/, to look for someone in your area, who specializes with working with children with reading struggles.  They can be a wonderful resource, not just for testing, but, for recommendations to help your child succeed in the classroom. 

These are a few things that have really helped Amy, and us, and I hope that you can benefit from some of our experiences.  Do you have something that helps you and your struggling reader?  Do you want to share?  Please, let me know! 

Published in:  on 06/03/2008 at 1:14 pm Leave a Comment